Même dans les cas elle craint pour le bien-être affectif ou la sécurité physique de ses enfants durant les visites, très souvent son avocat lui conseille activement de faciliter, d'encourager et d'accepter les visites afin de ne pas paraître inamicale.
Even in cases where women feared for the children's emotional well-being, or physical safety during access visits, they were most often actively encouraged by their lawyers to facilitate, encourage, and agree to access so as not to be seen as unfriendly.