It has been my experience that if I work with a parenting plan with a couple of parents, most of them are going to devise what's best for their kids, but once you get into using those words “Who's going to get custody”, then you're getting into control.
L'expérience m'a appris que si j'aide deux parents à préparer ce genre de plan, ils vont en concevoir un qui, dans la plupart des cas, sera celui qui est le meilleur pour leurs enfants.